Jennifer Stewart

Anti-Gay Activist Exposed Before the World


Posted: Thursday, May 06, 2010

by Jennifer Stewart
Stepping out of History

Thank heavens for the media and freedom of speech.

In 1954 Attorney Fred Phelps, who had grown up in Mississippi and been exposed to racial hatred and segregation, moved to Topeka. This was the year that segregation was legally banned in public schools.

Discrimination suits abounded and Phelps made his services available where many other lawyers didn't dare. He lost very few cases, made a fortune and many enemies. In 1979 he was disbarred for badgering a witness. His daughter believes the real reason was that he defended blacks so successfully.

Fast forward to 1998, and Attorney Phelps, now the Rev. Phelps with his own church in Topeka, is picketing a gay Wyoming college student's funeral. Phelps' signs say the student is rotting in hell.

Eight years later his campaigning has reached new heights at the funeral of an allegedly gay Marine who has been killed in Iraq. Phelps shouts that God loves dead soldiers. He is subsequently sued and the family is awarded $5.9 million altogether. The verdict is reversed on appeal, but that reversal is appealed as well.

A year later, the BBC does a documentary reflecting America's disgust at the man and his large family who mostly comprise his church. Phelps, now a virulent anti-gay activist, believes that God hates homosexuals and punishes them with death. He and his family-church have added anti-Semitism to the mix, and are planning protests in Atlanta Georgia, despite that his case before the US Supreme Court is pending.

Phelps' daughter believes he is a good man. His estranged son differs, though. He says that his father was always a bigot and a racist who insulted blacks behind their backs. Regardless of which of his children has the clearer view, what turned Phelps from serving a noble cause to promoting such an ignoble one?

The capacity for hate and self-justification has always been a part of the human dynamic, and has always appalled those who live their lives with integrity and have respect for their fellow humans. Unfortunately the hate-ful have always been loudest.

Now the media's power is added to the mix. It gives these neurotics a huge platform, and in principle allows them to reach and convert innocent, naive and vulnerable people very easily. But on the other hand, it is like a very strong magnifying glass. Everything is exposed to the public. Maybe people like Hitler got away with what they did because not enough people around the world saw them in their outrageous posturing.

That is not the case today, as the Rev. Phelps is finding out to his cost. Wherever he goes, no matter how much noise he makes, more and more people despise him. He may think he is leading a crusade, but the world is getting a very different picture of him than the one he has of himself.

Once upon a time a man like this could go on a mission and succeed in "erasing" 6 million people ( I use the term as a reflection of Hitler). That will never happen here. Thank heavens for the media.
Jennifer Stewart is the author of ebook And What About Me? Am I Into Him?

After a life of being adaptive, Jennifer is starting to do it her way. She values independence of mind and spirit and treasures the gift of being able to walk her own path and make dreams come true.

Right now she is now working on a crime novel, a memoire and three film scripts. She also plays piano and sings jazz standards and has a blog at And What About Me?

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Top-level comments on this article: (4 total)
» left by e
2 years 16 days ago.
133 fans.
Spot on!
» left by Jennifer Stewart 2 years 15 days ago.
153 fans.
Thanks, E.!

I want to know how you manage to get a two-word comment through!  Every time I try it I get a red message saying "not enough words"!
» left by e 2 years 14 days ago.
133 fans.
. . . . . Don't tell Bruce, but put some periods before the short comment.
» left by Kim Condemarin
2 years 16 days ago.
23 fans.
Very good article Jennifer. I just feel sorry for people who harbor such hatred. Thank you.
» left by Jennifer Stewart 2 years 15 days ago.
153 fans.
Thanks, and it's a pleasure, Kim. Definitely his hatred eats him up and harms him more than anybody else.
» left by Al Case
2 years 12 days ago.
22 fans.
Nicely put. The light of truth makes the worms crawl for cover.
» left by Jennifer Stewart 2 years 11 days ago.
153 fans.
That's a great way to put it, Al!
» left by Guy Phelps
from Montgomery,AL
2 years 6 days ago.
I am a Phelps and glad I am not connected to this FRED fellow.   I am a christian as he claims he is, but my bible is tells me "love thy neighbor", not hate.   Christ never showed hate toward anyone.   He showed love and gave forgiveness for sins.    This group has protested outside of my local Baptist church where I attend and we just went on with our worship an didn;t give them the time of day.   It is sad that they have children holding up hate signs.
  
» left by Jennifer Stewart 2 years 5 days ago.
153 fans.
Hi, Guy, thanks for sharing this, and it's great Fred didn't get to manipulate you in the way he sought.
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