Jennifer Stewart

What I Love About SearchWarp – Traffic, Friends, Reward, Inspiration, Fun, A Place To Give & Receive


Posted: Sunday, October 02, 2011

by Jennifer Stewart
Stepping out of History

I love it here on SearchWarp.  I’ve just posted an article about the power of the experience of love, what it’s done for my self esteem and entitlement in a real way, how it’s changed my life.  I was primarily talking about what I got from my therapist who has been so much more to me than just somebody who’s pretty good at his job.  But my experience here on SearchWarp has been the same.  I came here originally because I’d started a blog and I’d heard that a good way to promote it was to write articles on article directories.

I thought that’s what SearchWarp was.  So I posted something, as I did on other directory sites, and expected nothing in return.  I certainly didn’t think anybody would say hi, I loved what you wrote!   I got a personal welcome from Bruce Horst, and great comments from three other people.  It was incredible.  Writing into a vacuum is the hardest and worst thing in the world.  Writing and getting a warm response is the best and easiest.  I think my life changed the day I posted my first article here.  Imagine my thrill when I got 24 comments, all of them with lots of stars and found I had a fan club.  First in my life!

Of course I replied to the comments.  And sometimes got replies to what I said!  Articles became a kind of chat room.  But it wasn’t just that people took the trouble to offer the strokes, it was that SearchWarp felt like a kind of village that I’d stepped into and been welcomed with open arms.  When people open their hearts to you, it’s easy to open your heart back, and that’s what I did.  All my life it’s been hard for me to form friendships, but something was different here, and it was, again, the easiest thing in the world.

A lot of good things have happened for me here.  I’ve made friends, found a second home, grown much more confident in my ability to connect through writing, and more competent because I’ve written over 160 articles that I’ve put an effort into.  I’ve learned how to respect other people’s opinions even when I don’t agree with them, because that’s the culture here.  No dumping.  I’ve always felt that that culture comes from the hearts and souls of Bruce and Jean Horst, it’s who they are.  They've got integrity.

I’ve also broadened my understanding from all the reading I’ve done.  There’s some real quality work here, and an immense range, it’s quite incredible.  And let me tell you, you don’t find it on other article directories.  Well that’s because SearchWarp isn’t an article directory, is it?  It’s a community, and in my opinion it’s snapping at the heels of Facebook and blog sites like Wordpress and Blogspot.  Not in traffic yet, but that will come because of the fundamental quality and what it provides.

I think blogging in particular is turning a corner.  It was very satisfying in the beginning for many of us to just write and have a place we could be read.  But Wordpress and Blogspot don’t promote your blogs, they never say thanks, they don’t even know or care who you are.  And the traffic is pathetic.  I’ve had a blog for two years, where I’ve posted close to 500 posts, and I’ve never been acknowledged once by Wordpress.  My blog hasn’t even made it to their front page.

Plus I’ve only had 12,000 page views.  SearchWarp, on the other hand, has brought me 126,000 page views in one year for only 160 articles.  And I get acknowledged, appreciated, rewarded, all the time.  I recently posted an article about my dilemma – should I stop with Wordpress and just focus on SearchWarp?  I’m not ready to make a decision yet, and I think it’s just a kind of habit-loyalty thing, like when you have an old car and you buy a new one.  It’s exciting to get the new car, but you feel sad at letting the old one go.

But I did at least decide I would write exclusive articles for SearchWarp instead of just posting my blogs here.  Then this morning I wrote what was going to be a blog.  I liked what I’d written, it was important to me.  I logged into my blog.  2 people read my last post.  And 4 people the day before.  I thought all that effort for this return?  To hell with it, I posted what I’d written on SearchWarp, where I’m welcomed and rewarded before I even get read.

Bruce and Jean have had to make a lot of changes with Google’s last stunt, but I think what we have now is better.  We can all have our own homepage with our name, we can be part of a team and three different groups, we can chat to each other through the front page or just let everybody know where we’re at that day.  We can ask questions and get answers.

We can come home when we hurt and we’ll be held and loved.  When we’re happy we can laugh and celebrate together.  When we’re angry or scared we can tell it like it is and be understood.  We can get what we need and we can be part of giving it to others.  Plus we can become ever  better, more professional and focused writers, honing our skills in a community of people who are doing the same.

Cyberspace can be so unreal and cold, but somehow Bruce and Jean have created this amazing community that feels like a brick and mortar one.  I’m so glad I found my way here.  Thanks to both of you for building it in the first place, and for not giving up in the face of challenges.  SearchWarp is a very special place, and it has a truly special place in my heart.
Jennifer Stewart is the author of ebook And What About Me? Am I Into Him?

After a life of being adaptive, Jennifer is starting to do it her way. She values independence of mind and spirit and treasures the gift of being able to walk her own path and make dreams come true.

Right now she is now working on a crime novel, a memoire and three film scripts. She also plays piano and sings jazz standards and has a blog at And What About Me?

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Top-level comments on this article: (7 total)
» left by David Tanguay
218 days 3 hours ago.
187 fans.
I've been a member of search warp since '05 so much has changed for the better since, I really like search warp. I also see a psychiatrist Jennifer I gave him my search warp address he reads a lot of my work.
» left by Jennifer Stewart 217 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
Wow, that's a long time, David. I think it's great that you see a psychiatrist. I see a therapist too!
» left by Jean Horst
217 days 22 hours ago.
178 fans.
In my dreams, Jennifer, I am a world traveler and I get to visit a new country/area every couple of months or so. Unfortunately, my budget has never kept pace with my dreams. SearchWarp allows me to virtually travel by reading things written by people such as yourself, from all over the world. I feel really lucky to be able to make friends with people in so many different places. I'm glad you're here!
» left by Jennifer Stewart 217 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
I can see you being a world traveler, Jean. Maybe one day that dream will come true. I'd say you deserve it. I'm glad I'm here too and thanks!
» left by Bruce Horst 217 days 8 hours ago.
674 fans. Follow Bruce Horst on twitter!
Jennifer Jennifer Jennifer! Your story is probably the perfect story for us. I could frame it and hang it on my wall forever. It's been so good to watch you blossom over the past year and a half, your confidence and your abilities have grown so much. You better remember us when you're famous!

Thank you for being a part of SearchWarp.
» left by Jennifer Stewart 217 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
Thank you for the "when", Bruce!! I'm not going anywhere, no matter how famous I do or don't get! And it's a pleasure.
» left by Christofer French
217 days 8 hours ago.
73 fans.
Jennifer, you are a mensch. In Yiddish that means a "good person". I love having you responding to me, and I love the return. Loved hearing your story.
» left by Jennifer Stewart 217 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
I love those Yiddish words, Christofer, and mensch is one of my favorites. Thanks, it's a great compliment.
» left by Tharuna Devchand
217 days 4 hours ago.
16 fans. Follow Tharuna Devchand on twitter!
Well done Jen. And I know exactly what u mean. The net can be a blackhole sometimes and being a writer is often an isolated journey... Its great to get feedback. Its great to be told that your inner self critic is wrong:). I think its really awesome that u found a home for your writing. Btw did u hear about the kevin spacey short film comp??
» left by Jennifer Stewart 217 days 2 hours ago.
152 fans.
Hi Tharuna. Well, it can be your home too :) Amen to the self critic thing. No, I didn't hear about that competition. What is it? I can see Kevin Spacey appreciating your stuff...
» left by Tharuna Devchand 216 days 9 hours ago.
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I cant apply cos im not over 25. lol. heres the link: jamesonfirstshot.com
» left by Jennifer Stewart 216 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
What??? A competition that actually encourages "older" people?! Thanks for the link
» left by Suzi Gravenstuk 211 days 23 hours ago.
29 fans. Follow Suzi Gravenstuk on twitter!
Jennifer, this is a very well written article. You have made great strides, even in Searchwarp that some people will only continue to wish. Congratulations on a positive return for your diligence, passion, and consistency.
» left by Jennifer Stewart 204 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
Thanks, Suzi. I love what you say about the return :)
» left by Brianna Popsickle
204 days 9 hours ago.
121 fans.
You said it all, and once again, said it better than anyone else could have. You have fans for life! :)

» left by Jennifer Stewart 204 days 5 hours ago.
152 fans.
Hi Brianna! You're a darling :)
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